Henry K. Howard
One half-century and five years ago, my father Henry K. Howard, and
mother Mary Marie (McDermed), with my two brothers and four sisters,
moved to Barber County from Nash, Oklahoma. They settled on the old
Curry place and the three oldest children attended Amber School. Erna
Eckell was their teacher.
Dad, better knwon as 'Hank', was well known for his beautiful team
of horses and his fancy harness. Jake Haas was our hired hand and
neighbors were the Dan Axtells, John Jacksons, the Lunsfords, Lamkins,
and Haas families.
Leaving the farm in 1927, our family moved into town and lived in
the old Mounsey house on the hill on North Walnut. Dad hauled fuel for
Peoples Oil and Gas and became well acquainted with the residents of the
area. This same year I (Pattie) was born weighing in at two pounds, and
I'm told my Grandmother McDermed took me to Nash, Oklahoma, put me in a
shoebox, fired up the wood stove day and night for six weeks, and is
credited with saving my life.
In 1929 after a long illness, Dad lost his beloved wife, Marie, and
seven children were left without a mother. The next year was a struggle,
but with the help of Leona Lake and our dear Grandma Hunt, we made it
through, and thankfully Dad married Evelyn Pearce, who was only 18 at
the time, but our new mother cared for us as her own (and still is) and
kept our family together.
We all attended the old Grade School and High School (except myself)
and at one time all were members of the First Christian Church.
A partnership with Charlie Downing moved us to Sharon for two years and
then back to Medicine Lodge in 1937.
Tragedy struck our home and town on December 21, 1937, when an auto
accident took the life of our sister, Glenna Lee, age 15, and two other
students, Wanda Lee Wilson and Wayne Strickland. Betty Jane Nurse, Franklin
Fishburn, and Lee Taylor were also injured. I remember a very sad Christmas.
During this time Dad was hauling cattle, and fruit and vegetables from
Colorado.
My sister, Wilma, was now married to Kenneth C. Kusch of Fairview,
Oklahoma (2 children). Alice Mae married Warren L. Rodgers of Medicine
Lodge (6 children), and Ruth married Howard A. Thomas of Sharon, Kansas,
(3 children) on my 12th birthday, which was also the day we moved to Oregon.
Brother Gordon was in Oregon and still resides in Eugene with his wife,
Donna Rae (Blough)(2 children).
It was during World War II that brother Wayne became a 1st. Lt. in the
Air Force, and in 1945 was declared 'killed in action.' Several years later
his remains were found and returned with honors and buried in the Jefferson
Barracks National Cemetery in St. Louis, Missouri. Wayne was 24.
After thirty-three years in Oregon, which included farming and refurbishing
many homes in the Newberg area, and due to ill health and a longing to
return to Medicine Lodge and most of his family, Dad and Mom moved from
Oregon in may of 1972, and for two years renewed many old friendships from
the past.
Dad passed away on march 30, 1974, at age 84 years, leaving behind the
greatest legacy a man can leave ...... A LONG LIFE OF LOVE AND DEVOTION TO
HIS FAMILY!
Source:Chosen Land - Barber County, Kansas, pg. 241
Submitted by: Pattie Howard Tate