Ralph Pelton
I am Marjorie Pelton, writing for the Ralph Pelton family who returned
to Medicine Lodge the fall of 1971 for their retirement years.
Ralph was born at Sharon, the oldest of the three children of Harvey
and Bertha Ritchie Pelton. They moved to Medicine Lodge when Ralph was
three. After graduating from high school here, he attended K-State at
Manhattan, where we met; and my life was enriched from then on thru our
45 years together.
I was from Garnett, the fourth of the eight children of Alice Ray Taylor
and Leroy Howard. Since they were the only ones of their families to move
from Wisconsin to Kansas, we knew our relatives only through pictures and
letters, so I was impressed with Ralph's extensive family here. My father
died the year I was a senior in high school. Ralph earned much of his
college expenses working in wheat harvest summers, while I paid all of mine
teaching country school.
We were married in July, 1929, Ralph got a job with an airplane company
in Wichita. A few months later the company went broke and closed down.
Other jobs were short-lived. Wichita was full of men from the East, looking
for work. We didn't know what was happening; now we know it was the
beginning of the Great Depression.
We were hoemless and penniless when our first daughter, Helen Gail, was
born December 22, 1930. She was a year old when, with the assistance of
my brother Taylor Howard, who was working for Cities Service Oil Co. of
Tulsa, Oklahoma, Ralph was hired by the Gas Measurement Department of
that company. That was the answer to our desperation, so there could have
been no more loyal an employee than Ralph was for the next 38 years. He
enjoyed his work and the association with the many fine men he came to
know in his work.
Our second daughter, Marilyn, was born at Bartlesville, August 11, 1933.
My mother's death came a month to the day after that. Sad and frightening
years made us so much more appreciative of the many blessings that also
came to us. Besides my family, we had the love of Ralph's parents. Then
his mother's aunt, Sadie Clay of Medicine Lodge, included our daughters
in her bequest to five nieces and a nephew for their education. With that
assistance we were able to get both of our daughters through college -
Helen from K-State and Marilyn from Phillips University.
Helen taught in high school for several years, then married Donald Love,
son of Etta and Edgar Love of Partridge, Kansas. They had met in college.
They moved to St. Francis, where Don was County Extension Agent for some
years. He is now Farm Loan Representative for Travelers Insurance for
Northwest Kansas and Northeast Colorado. They have given us six marvelous
grandchildren, now from kindergarten thru college-ages: Peggy is teaching
her second year at Stockton; Steven is a freshman at Salina; Linda in
high school; John David and Nancy in grades; Julie in Kindergarten! Helen
teaches piano pupils at home and is church organist.
Marilyn married Calvin Porter, who she met in college at Enid. Calvin is
the son of Rev. Reece and Mary Porter of Oklahoma City. He received his
B.A. and B.D. degrees from Phillips, and his PhD from Duke University,
Durham, North Carolina. He also attended Harvard University. He joined
the faculty of Christian Theological Seminary at Indianapolis in 1962.
They have three children: Gregory in high school; Mary Elizabeth and
Barbara in grade school. Marilyn does office work.
Although Ralph was privileged to live for only 6 months after we returned
to Medicine Lodge, this is still "Our Chosen Land" for us, our children,
and for our grandchildren. We are pleased to be included in the history of
Barber County.
Source:Chosen Land - Barber County, Kansas, pg. 362