Ralph Phillips
Ralph and Edna (Rogers) Phillips were married in 1918. Ralph was in
the service during WWI. Edna continued living with her parents, Grant
and Willa Rogers in Elm Mills township where their first daughter,
Fern (Mrs. Albert Heublein) was born.
After the war they moved to the Mayme Holmes farm, north of Medicine
Lodge. Three children were born there. Jennie was born in 1921 and
passed away in 1969. Carol (Mrs. John Allen) was born in 1924. She lives
in Coldwater, Kansas, and her daughter, Shannon (Mrs. Rollie McGrath)
lives in Medicine Lodge. The only son, R.C. was born in 1927. He married
Dorothy Balding; they live in Dallas, Texas. Their three children are:
Cindy (Mrs. Henry Wood) Galveston, Texas; Sherri and Randy of Dallas.
R.C. is owner of The Ranchwood Co., which makes wood chunks of mesquite
and hickory for outdoor cooking.
It seems the community revolved around Grandview School. Mother played
the piano for the programs held there if the teacher didn't. Dad was on
the school board most of the years I can remember. We were taught to
respect the teacher as our authority!
The tornado of 1927 destroyed the school house. A new one was built
that summer, along with a very good storm cellar.
Our mothers always tried to have the house cleaning done by the time
school was out in April. They would go from house to house, helping
each other hang wallpaper.
In August, we cleaned the school house, cistern and horse barn. "Mr.
Ed" from Skinner's Elevator hauled coal into the shed for winter fuel.
He was the first negro I ever saw.
Church was never held at Grandview. We went to Amber School, 4 or 5
miles north, to Sunday School and Church.
A late Easter was often the day for a big community get-together in
the Currie Grove or on the Skinner ranch, where the W.F. Nipple family
lived.
Some of the old neighbors were: Tom Gallaghers, Bob Lamkins, J.O. Warrens,
John Hacsons, Rolland Dixons, Lunsfords, George Hogans, Grant Rogers,
Haas, Harve Warrens, Dan Axtells, Scott Freemans, Lyle Nipples, Carl
Barrows, Stanley Bush, Catlins, Roy Lakes, Fred Moomaus, Coffmans, Jay
Warrens, Horace Stouts. In this group were the best of cooks, ice cream
makers, cake and bread bakers.
I remember my folks making cider and sorghum. Sorghum was cooked over
a cement pit which Dad made. We kids carried wood for the fire and took
turns pusing chipped feed along the tray of compartments to keep the
sorghum from sticking as it cooked.
My folks left Barber County in 1938, but returned in 1944. They were
the first couple to live in the Carry Nation Home as caretakers, after
the WCTU purchased it. They later built their own home on West Jefferson.
Mother passed away in 1959. Daddy lived until 1963 when he fell from
a church in Sharon and fractured his back.
Source:Chosen Land - Barber County, Kansas, pg. 366
Submitted by: Fern Phillips Heublein