Joseph Wiley
In 1883, "Uncle Joe Wiley" moved his family to Barber County. He had
previously run a fovernment mail route from his home, Ellsworth, to
Great Bend and Larned. His daughter, Belle, remembered he first saw
Barber County in 1878, while delivering mail in the area.
Joseph Wiley, probably the oldest verteran of the Civil War in Barber
County at his death, died May 30, 1918. A veteran of outstanding service
in two wars, he died on what was at that time the most sacred national
day. He was well-loved by everyone in the community.
It is a tribute to the stamina of a man that, through he suffered
numerous afflictions, caused by his military service, he, at age seventy,
bought a farm, paying for it while working it.
Always looking for new frontiers, he was at Seiling, Oklahoma when word
of his wife's impending demise came. He rode, by trading horses, non-stop;
but he was too late. His kind, gentle wife, Rebecca Jane (Wilson) died in
1896. From that time forth when someone inquired of his health, he would
state, "Just fine. Just waiting for the Master's call."
He was born in Stafford County, Virginia, December 16, 1827, son of
Hezekia Wiley, of North Carolina and Sarah (Wheeler) of Maryland. In his
youth, his parents moved their family to Defiance County, Ohio, where the
father was killed at a log-rolling. His mother returned to her native
Maryland, later marrying James Henderson, from whom she had three sons.
His family was living in Difiance County when he, against the wished
of his parents, enlisted under the name Joseph Henderson in the Mexican
War. Later he served gallantly during the Civil War. He was captured by
Confederates, escaped before arrival at Andersonville, and aided by
ex-slaves, returned to his own lines.
He returned home to Defiance, where he married Miss Wilson, November 26,
1865. They moved to Ellsworth in 1871 and later to Barber County. The
Wiley's had nine children, four preceeded him in death: Joseph Orrin, born
1868 (married Effie Bechtel); Hezekiah, born 1870; George, born 1873; and
Lucy Cynthia born 1878.
Five daughters survived him - Mrs. Clarence (Cora) Blake, born 1866, Mrs.
Amos (Belle) Ash, born 1871; Mrs. Robert (Della) McLain born 1876; and Mrs.
Pearl (Lucy) Haner born 1883.
It is to his credit that early in life he became a devout, practicing
member of the Christian Church and was a charter member of the Medicine
Lodge church even before he moved there. He was one of the few men who
were so fortunate, accompishing so much in life. He truly deserved the
reward he received upon entering eternity.
Source:Chosen Land - Barber County, Kansas, pg. 486